The nerve

Ive been the bad guy in my "relationship" for years.Probably as long as I've been in it,not that I really think about it.Yet I'm the first person my former comes to for help.And this one is a doozy. Normally it's something vehicle related,as she and alot of her family drive vehicles made by the company I work for.Sometimes it's tech help,or a phone number or something of the like,but not like this one.Well,OK this has happenned before,but it's while we were together,or at least under the same roof(whole different story altogether) Earlier this year,we had our final straw,last hurrah,call it what you will.Court was in session,lawyers were paid,deals were made.But the main point is,I was done.It's time to move on.Yes you're the mother of my children,but you aren't my child,or connected to me by any other way,so I owe you nothing.I'm moving on. And that does not mean that because you're not living here,it doesn't mean you can offer my roof to your long lost sister that decided to climb out of the woodworks with her two kids.And then get mad when I say "no",sorry...NO!!!Wait,I'm not sorry.Why? The number one reason is obvious,so I dont need to.Or do I? Lets see.This sister lived under my roof already,about 7 years back.And then just up and vanished.And lets see,she did it again a few months ago to another relative she was staying with because she didnt want to stay with the obvious relatives,because she hates them.And the reasoning of..."but she could help you with the kids.Pick them up from school,daycare,clean,and cook" doesn't work because she may up and bail again,and,and,and,and...She doesnt have a car,or license.So wait,what?Hows that supposed to work again? SHe's gonna help me,when she cant even help herself?But She isnt the issue.The issue is....Im the bad guy,the asshole.Everytime you've left,I've been the reason.And it's always been some massively inflated incident,that was turned in your favor.But being realistic,we've all doctored stories before.But you're gonna offer the roof you you DON'T live under any longer,to the sister who's abandoned you,how many times already?To live with the guy who's done you wrong how many times? WOW,the Nerve!!!